How to Be a Better Kisser: Boost Your Make-Out Game With These Moves

A kiss is lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous. ~ Ingrid Bergman

From sweet pecks on the forehead to deep tongue make-out sessions, kissing is one of the most powerful forms of affectionate communication. For most couples, the first kiss sets the tone for physical intimacy and often triggers a chemical bond as a flurry of hormones overtakes your bodies from inside-out. Couples use kissing to gauge compatibility, express desire, deepen connection and initiate sex.

As time passes, however, kissing as a seductive art form often takes takes a backseat to more practical forms of foreplay like the infamous “poke” from behind. Grrr. Since kissing is not only an evolutionary imperative (saliva contains testosterone which can help to boost libido), but also a physical intimacy builder (couples who kiss more often report fewer fights, greater relationship satisfaction and less stress), it seems a shame to reserve it for the early dating stages of a relationship.

If you’d like to incorporate more kissing into your love life, check out these tips to be a better kisser and get more of what you want in the kissing department from your lover:

Kiss During Sex

Engaging in (almost) any activity when you’re at a high point of arousal will help to link this experience with pleasure. Try locking lips around the time you climax to train your brain to connect kissing with orgasm.

Tilt To The Left

Research suggests that most of us tilt our heads to the right when we kiss, so change it up periodically to experience new sensations and pathways to pleasure.

Line your lover’s lips. Trace your tongue around the inside of your lover’s lips as slowly as possible paying extra attention to the sensitive skin in the corners where the upper and lower lips meet.

Find The Sweet Spot

Find your lover’s sweet spot. Swirl your tongue around beneath your partner’s to find his/her sensitive frenulum — this is the connective tissue on the underside of your tongue (similar to the frenulum that attaches the foreskin to the penis).

Mimic Your Lover’s Moves

Most of us kiss and touch our partners the way we want to be touched, so use your lover’s technique as a model. If she is a soft-lip, gentle kisser, try kissing her in the same fashion and if he likes sloppy French kissing (research suggest that men are more likely to seek deep-tongue kisses), try his style on for size.

Take slow deep breaths. When we’re excited, we move at a faster pace than normal and a rushed kissed doesn’t convey your true passion. As you extend each breath, your movements will naturally follow suit

Soft Touch

Try a soft-lipped kiss. If your lover has difficulty relaxing or getting in the mood, try sliding your lips gently against his with only feather-light touch. Take your time resting your lips against his/hers allowing your breath and heart rates to slow down in synch.

Play The Buzzword Kissing Game

Do you need an excuse to kiss more often? Pick a word every month (e.g. ice cream) that signals the need to stop whatever you’re doing and kiss for ten to fifteen seconds. If you hear the word when you’re apart, bank your kisses and surprise your lover with a kiss when you reunite.

Play With Temperatures And Textures

Combine a cooling mint with the warmth of your breath or take a few sips of something bubbly to complement your natural sweetness.

Curl Your Tongue

Twirl in opposite directions or curl your tongue teasingly against the roof of your lover’s mouth.

Feel every move. Think of nothing except the space between your lips and tongue. Feel every movement as you twirl, breathe, lick, slide and suck. Being present is often the hardest part of pleasure, but it is elemental to every memorable experience.

Work Your Oral Skills

Kiss his tongue as you would his penis. Tantalize her lips as you would her vulva.

There exists no perfect formula for the perfect kiss, so simply use these tips as inspiration and change them up to make them your own. Do you have a kissing technique that drives you or your lover wild? We’d love to hear from you!

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